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Bengali Matrimonials–The Bengali Language is associated with the Bengali people.In India The Hindu Bengalis are mostly concentrated in the states of West Bengal and Tripura.There are also a number of Hindu Bengali communities scattered across North East India, New Delhi and the Indian states of Assam.Jharkhand, Bihar, Maharastra, Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh, Madhya Pradesh, Uttar Pradesh,Orissa Karnataka and Hyderabad. A huge Bengali community also resides in USA, Britain, Canada, U.A.E, Germany, Australia, New Zealand, Singapore.Two major religions practiced in Bengal are Islam and Hinduism. In Bangladesh 88.3% of the population follow Islam (US State Department est. 2007) while 9.6% follow Hinduism. In West Bengal,Hindus are the majority with 72% of the population while Muslims comprise 25.2%. Other religious groups include Bengali Buddhists and Bengali Christians. A Bengali Marriage includes many rituals and ceremonies that can span several days. In most cases, it starts with the Kabin ceremony (the official registration of the wedding and presenting Denmohor or Mahr) and ends with the Bou Bhat ceremony (the wedding reception, a day after the marriage, usually arranged by the groom's family). Though the rituals differ with the various districts of Bengal, among Hindus, it is usually classified into two: the Ghoti and Bangal rituals.

Bengali Hindu Surnames and Caste

Bengali Brahmin Brides and Grooms-The different Brahmin communities of Bengal have their own traditional accounts of origin, which are generally found in various genealogical texts known as kulagranthas or kulapanjikas. Rari Brahmin,Barendra Brahmin,Kulin Brahmin and Rudraj Brahmin are the most common classification of the Bengali Brahmin community. During the time of searching matrimonial alliance sometimes Bengali Brahmin surnames does matter.Usually Bengali Brahmin brides and grooms hold surnames Acharya, Adhikari, Aich, Bagchi, Banerjee, Bandopadhyay, Bhattacharjee, Chatterjee, Chakraborty, Debnath, Ganguly, Ghatak, Roy, Misra, Mukherjee, Nath, Munshi, Pathak, Sanyal, Tagore, Tewary and in the time of searching bride or groom a brahmin family looks for different surname brahmin family.For example if Bengali brahmin family carries a surname Mukherjee and they are looking for matrimonial alliance,then the family prefer to choose bride or groom from Banerjee,Chatterjee,Chakroborty,Roy surnames Bengali family for their mukherjee bride or groom.

Bengali Baidya Brides and Grooms– Baidya is a caste community confined to Bengal, which has traditionally claimed Brahmin status, but has been most commonly associated with the Ambashtha caste or sub-caste.Ambashthas are believed to have originated from Brahmin father and Vaishya mother,Bengali Baidya brides and grooms hold surnames —Sengupta, Dasgupta, Duttagupta, Gupta, Sensharma and they prefer to choose bride or groom within their Baidya caste.Here same surname alliance does not matter but preffered.

Bengali Kayastha Brides and Grooms—Bengali Kayastha is a caste in India. Kulin Kayastha and Maulika Kayastha are the two sub castes of Kayastha caste. Bengali Kayastha brides and grooms hold Surnames Bose, Basu, Biswas, Chandra, Chanda, Dutta, Datta, Guha, Mitra.In the time of arranging marriage Bengali Kayastha family always prefer to find match within their own Kayastha community.But often they does not mind to fix marriage of their bride and groom in the higher caste like Brahmin and Baidya community.

Bengali Baishya Brides and Grooms—Bengali Baishya caste belongs to the business community.Baishya brides and grooms hold surnames Saha, Poddar, Bhowmik, Sarkar, Choudhury, Sikdar etc. Bengali Baishya community also prefer to find match within their own community. Among all the Bengali Baishya caste, Baishya Saha brides and grooms are the majority, they are the business class and also from East Bengal.They always prefer to choose bride or groom from their same business class Baishya saha family for maitaining same mentality and lifestyle.

Bengali Mahishya Brides and Grooms– Mahishyas are one of the predominant castes in West Bengal, especially in the southern districts of Howrah, Paschim Mednipur,Purba Mednipur,Hooghly,and South 24 Parganas. Mahishya brides and grooms hold surnames Sasmal, Manna, Samanta, Santra, Dinda etc and prefer to arrange marriage within same community.

Bengali Ugra Kshatriya Brides and Grooms Ugra Kshatriya is a higher-caste Bengali Hindu found in the districts of Bardhaman, Birbhum, Hooghly and Bankura.Ugra Kshatriya or Aguri, known as The Followers of Lord Shiva.Ugra Kshatriya brides and grooms hold surnames samanta,Konar,Panja,Jana and prefer to arrange marriage within same community.

Bengali Gandhabanik Brides and Grooms—-Gandhabaniks are a  Bengali Hindu trading caste, who as their caste name suggests, traditionally used to trade in perfumes, incense and exotic spices. The lineage of the Gandhabaniks can be traced from the nine gotras namely Alimyan, Bharadwaj, Kashyap, Krishnatreya, Moudgalya, Nrisingha, Ram rishi, Sabarna and Sandilya. The Gandhabanik society is traditionally divided into four groups namely Desh, Sangha, Abat and Santrish.The family names of the Desh are Saha, Sadhu, Laha, Khan and Rudra. The family names of the Auts are Datta, Dhar, Dhar and Nag. The Gandhabaniks, being traders, have traditionally settled along the urban centres in Bengal, mostly along the banks of Hooghly. In eastern Bengal they were mostly concentrated in the Dhaka-Vikrampur region and other urban localities. After the partition the Gandhabaniks from the eastern districts like Jessore and Faridpur, migrated to West Bengal.In the time of searching matrimonial alliance Gandhabanik families also like to settle marriage within their own community,but often they do not mind to arrange marriage in other higher community also.

Bengali Namasudra Brides and GroomsNamasudra (also Namassej or Namassut) is the name of an Indian community originally from certain regions of Bengal, India. They were traditionally engaged in cultivation and as boatmen.Namasudra brides and grooms hold surnames Mondal, Biswas, Sarkar, Kirtania, Ray, Halder, Hira etc. Traditionally inter caste marriage was not allowed but this is changing.

Bengali Sadgop Brides and Grooms–The Sadgop derive their name from the Sanskrit word sad meaning good and gopa meaning a milkman. They claim to be descendants of the God Krishna. Gaya and Vrindaban are their pilgrim centers. They Sadgop are divided into two groups, the Kulin and Mulika, with the former further sub-divided into the eastern and western Kulin.The western Kulin live in West Bengal and are further sub-divided into the Ghosh and Sarhesia. The eastern Kulin left Midnapur town in West Bengal some part of East Bengal and moved to Bihar.Sadgop Brides and Grooms hold surnames Bhunia, Ghosh, Kuila, Dandapat, Mahapatra, Bera, Pal, Jana, Patra, Sarkar, Mondal, karan,Ray etc.Bengali Sadgop community also try to fix marriage within their own community.

Bengali Bagdis Brides and Grooms, Bengali Napit Brides and Grooms, Bengali SC Brides and Grooms, Bengali Subarna Banik Brides and Grooms, Bengali Kansabanik Brides and Grooms, Bengali Karmakar Brides and Grooms, Bengali Paundra Brides and Grooms are the other popular Bengali caste and comes under consideration during the time of  searching Matrimonial alliance.




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Malayalee Bride and Groom—–Malayalis or Malayalee community originating from the Indian state of Kerala.They speak the Malayalam language as their mother tongue.Kutty,Marar,Nambiar,Moothathu,Varma,Raja,Nair,Nayar,Channar,Chovan etc are the surname of Malayalee community.Following caste like Ambalavasi,Ezhava,Kaniyar,Nair,Namboodiri,Vishwakarma,Pulaya are present in Malayalee Hindu community and they are very much particular and follow the caste and every possible matter during the time of arranging Malayalee marriage.Malayalee marriage is generally divided into three phases. During the pre-wedding days, the muhurtham and date for the engagement and wedding are figured out. On the engagement ceremony, the nishchaya thaamboolam are exchanged by the prospective bride and the groom's parents. You can also witness the exchange of engagement ring on the same day, at many Malayalee weddings.The wedding ceremony is preceded by a ritual, wherein the bride and groom seek blessings from their elderly family members, by touching their feet. The custom paves the way for the nuptial knot, which is tied at the bride's ancestral home (preferably) or any venue, say, mandapam of a temple or the temple itself. The wedding ceremony is followed by reception, traditional feast and grihapravesham. Overall, the typical Malayalee marriage ceremony is true delight for the eyes. In this section, we have elaborated the Malayalee pre-wedding, wedding and post-wedding rituals.

Malayalee Pre Wedding Rituals–
The Malayalees start the preparation of wedding, well before the ceremony. Few weeks (or even months) prior to the marriage, the date and muhurtham are finalized for both the engagement and wedding ceremonies. Thereafter, the families of the prospective bride and the groom await for the wedding day, with a lot of expectations and anxiety.
Malayalee Wedding Rituals–
Malayalee wedding is a very short and crisp ceremony, which is held in the morning. The most preferred location to conduct a typical Malayalee wedding is the maternal house of the bride. However, with the passing time, people are opting for a more convenient venue for both the families of the bride and the groom, say, the auditorium of a nearby temple or the temple itself.
Malayalee Post Wedding Rituals–
Malayalee post-wedding rituals are limited to grihapravesham and traditional feasting, which makes the entire ceremony a very brief one. The one-day-long wedding is also followed by feasting at the bride and thereafter, at the relatives' places. Brief though, it is very touching to see the bride enters her 'new home', prosper the groom and his family's life.





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