Test your partner’s health condition before marriage

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Necessary Health Tests of Bride and Groom Before MarriageIn the arrange marriage most of the bride’s and groom’s families are very much keen to find out the compatibility of horoscope or kundli matching. But before marriage there is something more important than horoscope matching of bride and groom—that is physical and mental health check up of the bride and groom. The basic idea behind getting a health check before marriage is to rule out the factors, deficiencies or diseases that may interfere with a happy married life.


1.Routine Blood Test— Hemoglobin, TC, DC, ESR, Sugar, Urea, Creatinine and also special blood test for the diseases like Hepatitis B, Hepatitis C, gonorrhea, herpes and hiv+ve, hiv-ve are absolutely essential. Because the above diseases are infectious or STD(sexually transmitted diseases) and transferred during intercourse.


2.Thalassemia Test—To know whether the bride and groom are the carrier of thalassemia germ this test is required. By doing Hemoglobin electrophoresis test one can diagnose about the existence of the disease.If any one of the proposed bride or groom is diagnosed as a carrier of Thalassemia germ that does not make much problem but if both are diagnosed as the carrier of of Thalassemia then it may crate problem.


3.Blood Group Test—Usually people think bride and groom with same blood group may create difficulty to conceive. But this is not true. A factor known as the ‘Rh’may be of concern, as women who bear a negative ‘Rh’ factor in their blood may be incompatible wit men with a positive ‘Rh’blood group during child birth, in the sense that it may lead to miscarriages. This can be tested during regular blood group test. Although medical science has advanced to a level adequate to eliminate these differences and cornered down incompatibility to a great extent.


4. Chromosomal analysis or Karyotyping Test—This test can detect the presence of genetic abnormalities within blood, bone marrow or tumor cells.If the bride or groom having any chromosomal difficulty or dispute in gene their child may face many difficulties in future.


5. Honeymoon Cystitis Test- By doing urine culture and urine sensitivity test one can diagnose about the disease. Honeymoon Cystitis is one term for a urinary tract infection. The majority of sufferers are female.


6.Fertility Test—Few hormonal tests like FSH(follicular stimulating hormone),LH (luteinizing hormone),TSH(thyroid stimulating hormone) and Prolactin for the bride and semen test for the groom are mandatory to diagnose any problem regarding fertility.


7. Psychological Test- Specially in the case of arrange marriage there is very little possibility for the bride and groom  to know each other closely. So a thorough psychological  test is recommended for both  the bride and  groom for the abnormalities like depression, schizophrenia, mood disorders, mania or personality disorder etc.



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How to find a perfect life partner—–

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 Find your life partnerFinding the right life partner is very much necessary to lead a happy married life. We all want to find the right partner in life. Nobody wants to die alone. But finding and choosing the right person can be a monumental task. Hope with the help of the following steps you just may find your soul mate.

A.    Register yourself on a good, professional and popular matrimonial site– Yes this is the first and absolute necessary step with which you have to begin.If you have the requirement you have to show it on a right platform rather than on any social networking site. Finding life partner on facebook,twitter or similar type of social networking site or on any dating site may not be a good practice in India or in Indian culture.

B.    Search and select some profiles according to your priorities-In arrange marriage finding life partner on looks should not be your first priority. Social status, family background, profession,personality,financial condition,height,weight etc all does count during the time of selection.

C.   Check the behavior and nature of your partner-If someone’s nature and behavior does matter in your life then you should check the vital thing in your partner.

D.   Consider your partner’s intellect- If you are a laid-back person and your partner is an over-achiever, that could lead to a threat in your marriage.You must see eye to eye on how both of you are able to think and process things.

E.    Potential partner with same interests-Selecting someone who shares a lot of common interests with you will work in your favour. Remember that all your interests don't really have to be the same, but some would do. Says clinical psychologist and relationship expert Seema Hingorrany, "When you decide to spend your life with someone, you must look at things that the two of you would love to do together. For example, if you are a movie buff, you would ideally like to be with someone who enjoys movies as well. This will make your life interesting."

F.    You should have respect for one another-You obviously cannot spend your life with someone who has no respect for you or your dreams/goals or your personality. So, choose someone who will acknowledge you for the rest of your life.

G.   Is your potential trustworthy- In this day and age, it is extremely important to choose someone you can trust. You definitely cannot lead a happy marriage if you cannot trust each other or have faith.

H.   Spend time together- Just as important as it is to have similar interests, it is also crucial to be with someone who gives you enough time and who you would love to spend time with.

I.      Health check up-For a healthy married life health factor does play a crucial role so be sure about your partner’s health condition.

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