How To Make Yourself Attractive And Beautiful Before Marriage

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Tips To Look Beautiful And Smart—-In India character, education, profession ,family does matter during the time of searching life partner . Although the inner beauty comes first on the base of humanity for judging a person but a fresh, beautiful looks with glowing skin is always considered as  an extra advantage for both brides and grooms. Being looks attractive also helps  you to feel good and increase your confidence. Some brides and grooms are naturally blessed with their good, attractive looks but with an average looks you can make yourself attractive by adapting some easy habits. Even without hitting gym and spa regularly you can maintain yourself in shape, fresh and attractive. Just try to follow the easy steps and be surprised to see the change in yourself within few months——-

1.Drink Plenty of Water—-Try to drink at least 1.5 to 2 liters of water everyday. Start your day with fresh lemon water and a spoon of honey ,it helps your stomach clean and also detoxified your system.

2.Easy Diet—Have minimum 6 to 8 home made meals daily with small quantity. Eat at least one seasonal fruit or combination of different colours of fruits.Nariyal pani or coconut water is a good source of fresh vitamins and minerals. So try to keep it in your regular diet. Milk is considered as a complete food drink. Apart from iron milk is the source of all essential food substances .So milk or milk products like curd, paneer etc should have in your regular diet. During the time of lunch and dinner have different colours of vegetables as sabji with rice or roti. Cucumber with some other benefits is a good source of Vitamin E and very much essential for your good skin. So add cucumber in your regular diet. Having non veg  food like fish ,egg ,chicken in your regular diet are not bad but must be cooked with minimum spice and oil.

3.Strick no to some foods and drinks—-Avoid junk foods, fried foods, oily foods, Pizza, fast foods ,road side foods, ready to eat foods, red meat ,alcohol ,soft drinks

4.Exercise Regularly—You have to give at least  40 to 60 minutes everyday. Do at least  5 types of easy exercise like walking or jogging, swimming, stairs workout, push ups, yoga, meditation and other free hand exercise. Combination of different types of exercise helps you not to feel bore as well as it will keep all the body parts healthy.

5.Sleep Properly—Daily 6-8 hours sleep helps you to make yourself fresh, active and charged up. Also make your immune system strong and keep yourself disease free.

6.Spend some time in nature—-To make your food digest properly and feel energetic fresh oxygen plays a vital role. So try to spend few hours in green airy atmosphere.

7.Stay clean and keep your skin spot free—Wash your skin with a mixture of besan or gram flour, cucumber juice, honey, turmeric or haldi and milk. Sometimes you may add few drops of lemon juice also in the mixture. Wear only properly washed clothed. Always wear the dress and colour which makes you feel comfortable.

8.Feel Happy-Avoid to be sad, depressed, tensed and angry. Stay relaxed, calm and cool. Massage your face, hands, shoulders, feet, blow fingers within your hair more frequently  and keep the blood circulation smooth. Find happiness. Keep yourself surrounded by people with positive energy. Try to help others without any intention.

9.Love Yourself—-Spend some time with yourself in deep silence. Talk to yourself, analyze yourself ,take deep breathe and try to communicate with your own soul. Do something to make yourself important on others life.

10.Avoid Tobacco—Yes you have to do it .

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Manglik Matrimonial Site

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Manglik Brides and Grooms—–When we try to find match and arrange marriage according to Indian Astrology, then Manglik Dosha or Bhauma dosha on the bride and groom’s horoscope develops a matter of concern. If the bride or groom is manglik, then it may have an effect after marriage. From the Hindu astrological point of view Mangal Dosha is an astrological combination that occurs if Mars (Mangal) is in the 1st, 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th house of the ascendant chart. A person born in the presence of this condition is termed a manglik. Manglik dosha is a very vital thing.This type of dispute can lead to very unhappy married life and may end with death of a partner or both. This is believed to be caused due to the "fiery" nature of the planet Mars,named after the Roman god of war.

According to Indian Astrology, Mangal graha is known for two main qualities—creation power and destroying power. Generally in human life, Mangal  graha attracts good fortune and wealth. And the meaning of Mangal graha is duty. When the Mangal graha does not function properly or is present inappropriately in someone’s kundli/horoscope,then its called Mangal dosha or Bhauma dosha. A disturbing Mangal creates massive misunderstanding between husband and wife. Bad Mangal is also responsible for unsatisfied  conjugal life, conflict, separation and divorce, sometimes even death. If both bride and groom carries Manglik Dosha on their horoscope, then the Mangal bad effects disappear automatically. For this reason matchmakers always try to arrange marriage of Manglik brides and grooms with the Manglik only. With this effort the manglik dosha of brides and grooms are destroyed automatically and they can lead a happy married life.

Mangal Dosha Remedies

Marriage between two Manglik individuals—As discussed earlier If both the partners are Mangliks then this dosha gets nullified. All its ill- effects are cancelled and the two can have a blessed and happy married life.

Placement of Mars in the horoscope chart–Astrologers also claim that if the first house is of        Aries or Mesh in one’s horoscope chart, and Mars or Mangal resides in this house then the Mangal Dosha is no longer effective, as Mars is in its own house- Aries.

Fasting–Out of all the remedies fasting on Tuesdays is also considered an effective remedy. Manglik individuals who observe a fast on this day should eat only toor daal (split pigeon daal).

Chanting—Manglik individuals should chant the Navagraha mantra which is known as Mangal Mantra on Tuesdays. They can also chant the Gayatri mantra 108 times in a day or the Hanuman Chalisa, daily.

Performing Pujas in Temples—Visiting Navagraha temples reduce the ill-effects caused by Mangal Dosha. However, there are only a few temples in the whole of India that are dedicated to Lord Mangal. The most popular temples are located in Tamil Nadu. Some are also located in Guwahati, Assam.Performing these pujas on Tuesdays is very effective to reduce the ill effects of Mangal dosha. Visit a Lord Hanuman temple and worship him on Tuesdays. Offer vermilion and sweets. Also light a ghee lamp at the temple.

Offerings and contributions–Making contributions on Tuesdays is considered as a remedy for Manglik individuals. Some objects that are considered as items that should be offered to please Mars are swords or knives, food that are made of red lentil daals (masoor daal), wheat breads, red silks, and red stones such as corals.

Gemstones--Wear in the ring finger of the right hand a golden ring with a bright red coral. However, get the horoscope chart analyzed thoroughly by a trusted astrologer before wearing it.

Kumbh Vivah--There is a belief that the negative consequences for a single-manglik marriage can be resolved if the manglik first performs a ceremony called kumbh vivah  in which the manglik "marries"  a banana tree or peepal tree or a silver or gold idol of the Hindu God Vishnu.

Note-However, Mars is not the only planet in Astrology that is supposed to affect the relationship and these effects should be seen in a broader perspective of overall astrological compatibility. Strong believer on God should not mind the above dosha seriously and also take it casually. Sometimes all well kundli matched couple experience the curse of marriage or end up with separation.Happy married life comes from good understanding between husband and wife,from respect on each other feelings, sound financial and good health. Rest of the matters perform as catalyst only.

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