How To Cope Up After Divorce

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Divorce or break ups are not easy to handle. Whether you have been in a long-time or a short-time relationship , putting an end to it is painful. Different people turn to different things for respite. While many take time to get over a break up ,they are others who move on quickly. Try the following steps to cope with a break up or divorce……

Maintain a routine in life—

A divorce or relationship breakup can disrupt almost every area of your life, amplifying feelings of stress, uncertainty, and chaos. Getting back to a regular routine can provide a comforting sense of structure and normalcy. Try not to make any major decisions in the first few months after a separation or divorce, like starting a new job or moving to a new city. If you can, wait until you’re feeling less emotional so that you can make better decisions

There is tomorrow—

A divorce or breakup is a beginning as well as an end. Always tell yourself that this is not the end of the World you still have a future ahead.

Develop a healthy lifestyle—-

Start to live a healthy  life, Eat well ,sleep well and exercise

Avoid using alcohol, drugs, or food to cope—– 

Using alcohol, drugs, or food as an escape is unhealthy and destructive in the long run. It’s essential to find healthier ways of coping with painful feelings.

Surround yourself with positive energy—–

Spend time with people who support, value, and energize you.

Find time for yourself—-

Go for a walk in nature, listen to music,watch movies, enjoy a hot bath, get a massage, read a favorite book, take a yoga class

Concentrate on your interests—-

Spending time in other activities leaves you less time to dwell on your separation. Establish a hobby. Take a class, join a club or association or rediscover a long-forgotten passion.

Volunteer for an organization or cause. Participate in volunteer projects that take the focus away from your own situation and focus it on helping others or improving your community.

Meeting New People–Gaining new friends can give you a sense of confidence and pride that will help you overcome and cope with your separation.


Find a good and popular divorcee matrimonial site

Apart from all the above activities you also have to think to give your life another chance. You should consider for second marriage. In the beginning it may sound awkward but with the time you will realize someone of your own a special person is needed to spend the rest of the life.Just find a good divorcee matrimonial site in India and register yourself. You will find lots of likeminded divorcee brides and grooms ,choose the best one for you and start your life a fresh.



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Tips For Early Marriage

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Enhance Marriage LuckSometimes despite of all possible efforts due to some uncanny effects things does not materialize. If you are victimized of the same then try to bring some heaven luck by following the steps. This article will not only help you to speed up your marriage opportunities but will also guide you to maintain a happy married life and save from  separation and divorce like situations.

Concentrate on the south west sector of your house—-

According to feng shui The south-west sector of the house is called relationship area. The south west part of the prospective brides and grooms bedroom is related to marriage. So energise the south west sector of your house by keeping it well lit. Lighting two red or pink candles every evening in this corner of the bedroom will enhance the chances of marriage. Here even a pair of mandarin ducks also works wonder.

Have everything well balanced in the master bed room of the prospective brides and grooms .Preferably have two of everything such as two bedsides tables, two lamps ideally with one connection, two alarm clocks on either side,

Make sure that this corner is not collecting clutter and is not in complete darkness. Don’t block the energy of this area with a heavy almirah or metallic objects. A washing machine in this corner could be washing away your marriage opportunities.

If you can’t do anything with it at least keep it clear of any clutter or rubbish and install a red light and leave it on for the rest of the evening.

You can grow bamboo trees in the south west of your garden or have them in pots in the south west corner of your living or dining area.

If this area is missing ,try to strengthen the place by introducing some earth objects like a pair of terracotta pots, or a rockery created here with marble boulders where two boulders can be tied together with a red ribbon.

The south west corner of the living room should also be done up using shades of red and accessories that are suggestive of partnerships like picture of a king and queen or a couple’s figure with a bunch of red roses

Bed arrangement of the prospective brides and grooms-

Avoid single bed try to sleep on queen size bed

Red or pink flowers in a crystal vase on both sides of your bedsides table are also useful.

The prospective brides and grooms should not use old and two separate mattress in their bed. They also should avoid metal bed  and bed with storage.

Bed Room Colour of prospective brides and grooms-

The prospective brides and grooms bed room’s wall colour should be light preferably light pink enhance the marriage prospect. In general, pink is considered to be one of the best colors for the bedroom because it is the color associated with relationships. Pink is also thought of as an auspicious color combining the fire/ passion of red and the metal element of white. Pink represents love and pure feelings of joy, happiness, and romance.

Light blues and light greens are positive colors for a bedroom as well as small accent colors of red. Green represents tranquility, hope and freshness as seen in spring growth or that of a new plant or leaf. 

Chant Swayamvara Parvathi Mantra

‘Om Hreem Yogini Yogini Yogeswari Yoga Bhayankari Sakala Sthavara

Jangamasya Mukha Hrudayam Mama Vasam Akarsha Akarshaya Namaha’

Swayamvara Parvathi is the most powerful mantra in removing all known and unknown obstaclein marriage and help to marry quickly.(Legend SwayamvaraParvathi mantra being provided by great sage Rishi Durvasa and recited by Goddess Parvathi to marry Lord Shiva.That is why it is called Swayamvara Parvathi Mantra

Find a good and popular matrimonial site

Finding life partner online is a quick and hassle free procedure nowadays.So the prospective brides and grooms should register themselves in a good and popular matrimonial site from where the marriage proposals will develop.





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