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Find your life partnerFinding the right life partner is very much necessary to lead a happy married life. We all want to find the right partner in life. Nobody wants to die alone. But finding and choosing the right person can be a monumental task. Hope with the help of the following steps you just may find your soul mate.

A.    Register yourself on a good, professional and popular matrimonial site– Yes this is the first and absolute necessary step with which you have to begin.If you have the requirement you have to show it on a right platform rather than on any social networking site. Finding life partner on facebook,twitter or similar type of social networking site or on any dating site may not be a good practice in India or in Indian culture.

B.    Search and select some profiles according to your priorities-In arrange marriage finding life partner on looks should not be your first priority. Social status, family background, profession,personality,financial condition,height,weight etc all does count during the time of selection.

C.   Check the behavior and nature of your partner-If someone’s nature and behavior does matter in your life then you should check the vital thing in your partner.

D.   Consider your partner’s intellect- If you are a laid-back person and your partner is an over-achiever, that could lead to a threat in your marriage.You must see eye to eye on how both of you are able to think and process things.

E.    Potential partner with same interests-Selecting someone who shares a lot of common interests with you will work in your favour. Remember that all your interests don't really have to be the same, but some would do. Says clinical psychologist and relationship expert Seema Hingorrany, "When you decide to spend your life with someone, you must look at things that the two of you would love to do together. For example, if you are a movie buff, you would ideally like to be with someone who enjoys movies as well. This will make your life interesting."

F.    You should have respect for one another-You obviously cannot spend your life with someone who has no respect for you or your dreams/goals or your personality. So, choose someone who will acknowledge you for the rest of your life.

G.   Is your potential trustworthy- In this day and age, it is extremely important to choose someone you can trust. You definitely cannot lead a happy marriage if you cannot trust each other or have faith.

H.   Spend time together- Just as important as it is to have similar interests, it is also crucial to be with someone who gives you enough time and who you would love to spend time with.

I.      Health check up-For a healthy married life health factor does play a crucial role so be sure about your partner’s health condition.

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Matrimonial Sites In India—-Marriage is a big event in India.In case of arrange marriage finding a perfect match is equally important.With the blessing of internet in today"s World matrimonial sites are the very helpful platform to find a perfect life partner.But all matrimonial service providers do not provide services genuinely.Even some of the matrimonial sites run friendship and dating business in the name of matrimony services.There are some matrimony sites in India only present to collect money and cheating people.Even some matrimony company runs matrimony business without knowing India's various castes different cultures,traditions and rituals.They never think about to provide honest service to their clients.So one should cautiously judge a matrimonial site before being registered.These are the some tips to find a genuine and good matrimonial site—-

A.The main benefits of a matrimonial site are free membership and free searching.A genuine matrimonial service provider or matrimonial site will never force you to pay first.The site will ask your matrimonial details and criteria first after that they will provide matches according to your requirements and next if you wish to proceed with the matches only then they will ask for their fees.

B.A genuine and good matrimonial site provides lots of matches according to your requirement so that you can find the perfect matrimonial alliance.

C.Untill you are not finding a suitable match you may advertise your matrimonial profile on the matrimonial site at free of cost.

D. Matrimonial ID–If you are searching for matrimonial alliance a matrimonial ID in a good matrimonial site is very important.It tells a lot,save  time and money.Helps you to avoid unwanted calls and harassments.

Apart from all the above and other benefits there is a disadvantage of matrimonial sites and that is fake profiles.Although the front liner matrimonial sites try their best to verify each and every profile but still some fake profiles does exist.Recently a meeting held between matrimonial websites and (WCD) women and child development minister Maneka Gandhi.The ministry has suggested that matrimonial websites must ask prospective grooms to submit a reliable form of identification like an Aadhar Card or Pan Card.While technically the ministry has no jurisdiction in the matter but the aim is to find a solution to filter out married men posing a single and stalkers. 

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